tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post1579814119082946739..comments2023-10-08T11:38:43.498-04:00Comments on Client Nine and a Half: Harder Than November Rainadvochastyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-45193640077768268722009-02-02T16:24:00.000-05:002009-02-02T16:24:00.000-05:00I think our similarities in processing and our dif...I think our similarities in processing and our differences in perceptions of purpose make for facinating discussion. I actually shared some of our collective thought process with my friend and her responses were really interesting. One was just downright hot and provocative. It's really worth a follow-up post one day.advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-59629536479926409932009-01-28T11:57:00.000-05:002009-01-28T11:57:00.000-05:00And you said that you don't have the experience to...And you said that you don't have the experience to answer - bah! Most obviously you do. And the variations in perception is all a part of what's interesting about things like the original question to me.<BR/><BR/>I think that all 3 of us are quite similar in our mental and emotional responses and processing of things, yet all 3 of us have subtlety different ways of perceiving the purpose and meaning of punishment.Aarkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16438372346424006691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-88629058816045720112009-01-24T16:28:00.000-05:002009-01-24T16:28:00.000-05:00I didn't mean to oversimplify. Maybe there's such...I didn't mean to oversimplify. Maybe there's such a thing as "good" punishment for being "good" - as play or scene or even administered regularly and ritualistically. Then perhaps there's "bad" punishment for being bad. I know I didn't like the punishments I described in my post, but their net effect figures into my submission to her. I guess the trick is keeping all the goods and the bads straight. Ya need a ref for this stuff! ;-)advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-78373307883046865622009-01-24T15:27:00.000-05:002009-01-24T15:27:00.000-05:00Wow! Advo! That was really heart felt and very bea...Wow! Advo! That was really heart felt and very beautiful! I can so identify with the sinking feeling in the pit of one's stomach when you displease she who you adore. I have had some of those with my former Mistress as well as my Queen. <BR/><BR/>In an e-mail to my former Mistress when I was very angry with her I said some truly vicious and horrible things that almost ended our friendship. Although I am no longer her client I ended up feeling truly horrible about it and, after a bit of the silent treatment you describe, we managed to patch things up. <BR/><BR/>My Queen's wrath? Now that is something truly terrible to behold!! She is truly scary when she's pissed!!!! She has abused me physically a few times and verbally more times than I care to recall!!!! Once recently she slapped my face pretty hard as I knelt beneath her. She was mad and it was payback for me acting like a putz! It hurt but it turned me on I must confess! :blush:!<BR/><BR/>Still these examples are quite different than ritual, corporal punishment, carried out in a dispassionate and methodical fashion for transgressions committed. It's not that I only want to experience my corporal punishment as play. It's just that my Queen simply does not dish out punishment to me in that fashion. In fact I think I would very much like that element to enter into our relationship. I would like to be regularly and harshly disciplined for my transgressions. Very much!<BR/><BR/>But the reality is I only experience corporal in the context of play and/or scenes. To really experience my Queen dishing out true corporal punishment to me on a regular basis is something I can only fantasize about. <BR/><BR/>Here’s a question; if my Queen whipped me for being bad would that be rewarding bad behavior and would I be tempted to misbehave more frequently? Don't know but I sure wouldn't mind finding out! ;-)<BR/><BR/>Best<BR/><BR/>hmpHer Majesty's Playthinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07185896552621339359noreply@blogger.com