tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post1890232387825945831..comments2023-10-08T11:38:43.498-04:00Comments on Client Nine and a Half: Outside Looking Inadvochastyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-48095149032583304702011-05-16T22:08:31.988-04:002011-05-16T22:08:31.988-04:00Aarkey -
Thanks! I needed that. Spent the eveni...Aarkey -<br /><br />Thanks! I needed that. Spent the evening trying to "lead" on the dance floor. Sometimes I'd hit it and sometimes I was ... outside looking in - at my two left feet!<br /><br />I need me some Florida sun. This May is total tease and denial in NYC - and not the good kind. Grey, chilly, rainy. Need me some sun, son! See ya soon.advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-80423180218719652332011-05-16T12:50:58.208-04:002011-05-16T12:50:58.208-04:00I have to simply echo HMP - you really are a gifte...I have to simply echo HMP - you really are a gifted writer.<br /><br />The detached feeling of being outside looking in is something that I know. After my first heartbreak and again after my divorce, I experienced that. And frankly, I learned to consider it to be a healthy thing. Call it corny, but it was "self-loving" - and that's something I needed more of.<br /><br />It will be good to see ya this week. Be well,<br />C<br /><br />subrop!Aarkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08835944871054417961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-24569739443422775942011-05-14T13:11:26.869-04:002011-05-14T13:11:26.869-04:00Advo:
Sounds like a plan. And yes you have *great...Advo:<br /><br />Sounds like a plan. And yes you have *great* subby guy game! ;-)Her Majesty's Playthinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07185896552621339359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-74085012991288082582011-05-14T12:31:40.332-04:002011-05-14T12:31:40.332-04:00HMP -
Thanks for the compliments. I actually thi...HMP -<br /><br />Thanks for the compliments. I actually think that with these two women the dreaded "friend zone" is where I chose to be or have chosen. My momentary efforts to find the trap door are the foolish folly of spring.<br /><br />At least the juices still flow.<br /><br />I think it is certainly true of me that I mostly don't have game. I'm a submissive with good subbie guy game; but little "knock-her-down-and-fuck-her" suave.<br /><br />She's gotta want me and go for it.<br /><br />I figure at least this way, I'll know for sure when I run across Ms. Right.advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-19430024846306370822011-05-14T12:19:45.739-04:002011-05-14T12:19:45.739-04:00Hi Advo:
Just sitting here on the couch reading y...Hi Advo:<br /><br />Just sitting here on the couch reading your blog as Her Majesty reads the instructions to her new exercise machine. (Our basement is the exercise machine graveyard. Will this one survive?)<br /><br />This is a wonderful post. I was once again reminded of how well you write. Also reminded of how incredibly confusing relationships can be. Also of how complicated women are. Also of how much I don't miss dating. <br /><br />Once upon a time I had a few techniques for dating. They are even deader than most of Her Majesty's exercise machines. God help me if I had to resurrect them now. Even if I managed to dust them off and breathe life back into them they would apply only to vanilla scenarios. <br /><br />My son is very good looking, suave, smart and sensitive. He is already quite the lady killer. Some of what you describe here sounds like what he might call be consigned to the dreaded "friend zone". Apparently once you have been confined to the friend zone it is difficult to be viewed as anything other than a "nice guy" and a friend. In order to find the secret trap door back you must be incredibly resourceful, dashing, masculine and debonair. I don't think being a subbie really fits into that equation. <br /><br />Your journey continues my friend and I for one really enjoy reading about it. Happy hunting! ;-)Her Majesty's Playthinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07185896552621339359noreply@blogger.com