tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post6490986876020585825..comments2023-10-08T11:38:43.498-04:00Comments on Client Nine and a Half: I Wanna Live in the Worldadvochastyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-48804640492118652002008-12-02T18:47:00.000-05:002008-12-02T18:47:00.000-05:00Veronica,Thanks for the kind and supportive words....Veronica,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for the kind and supportive words. What is right is such a mutable concept in affairs of the heart, especially when there is twenty years of a life together at stake. As I get older, what I thought I knew for sure when I was 25 years old I'm just completely uncertain of today. It is an intense journey and I'm happy you've dropped by to share it. Thanks so much.advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-52450393345977625122008-11-29T12:49:00.000-05:002008-11-29T12:49:00.000-05:00That is very brave, Advo. It's strange that it's ...That is very brave, Advo. It's strange that it's so difficult to do the things that we truly feel are right for ourselves. My sincerest and best wishes on your journey.<BR/><BR/><BR/>xoxo.Mistress Veronica NYChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00572419521124151619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-39755423667684110552008-11-19T19:18:00.000-05:002008-11-19T19:18:00.000-05:00Thanks for the kind words and well wishing Whiz. ...Thanks for the kind words and well wishing Whiz. It's a bigger set of issues than just lonliness. One can end up being terribly lonely in a marriage too.<BR/><BR/>Actually, being alone might not be so awfully lonely in the end anyway. Everything is a trade off. Plus, as much as I want to be in control and top this situation from wherever my position is - I just can't control it all anymore. I'd pretty much made my peace with my situation.<BR/>She had not and has not.<BR/><BR/>The story continues for sure. But thanks again for your kind support.advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-69734926039330115592008-11-19T10:07:00.000-05:002008-11-19T10:07:00.000-05:00Advo,I really am so sorry to hear this. I underst...Advo,<BR/><BR/>I really am so sorry to hear this. I understand your struggle. Please keep in mind that those few hours of kink each week may seem like pretty slim pickins' if you find yourself alone and lonely for days and nights on end if the marriage actually breaks up.<BR/><BR/>There are no easy answers, but a lot of us are here pulling for you.<BR/><BR/>All the best.<BR/><BR/>WhizzerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-46077248223329369212008-11-15T14:36:00.000-05:002008-11-15T14:36:00.000-05:00Aarkey & HMP;Thanks guys...your kind words, ex...Aarkey & HMP;<BR/><BR/>Thanks guys...your kind words, experience and friendship have meant and continue to mean a tremendous amount to me. The board, the blogs and chat have made such a difference. I truly do not feel alone. Though it is a sad time, it's a time of great hope.<BR/><BR/>Now, where's my pink elephant pooper scooper ...advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-49252299322569095692008-11-15T14:17:00.000-05:002008-11-15T14:17:00.000-05:00Wow... you weren't kidding about how appropriate m...Wow... you weren't kidding about how appropriate my video was. I thin that video was so funny because so many of us have been there to one degree or another.<BR/><BR/>Kink just seems to exacerbate things.<BR/><BR/>There's a great freedom and liberty and joy that comes with throwing off the cuffs of shame and secrecy. Doing it without hurting others is very hard sometimes. The expectations and even the denial we setup in our worlds can be huge. And to have someone say "Hey, look a pink elephant!" well - it can be a really rough way to wake up.<BR/><BR/>But then you make a little coffee, and throw on a comfy robe, and chat... and hopefully the pink elephant is house trained.<BR/><BR/>Drop an e-mail to chat anytime if you need to.<BR/><BR/>You are not alone.Aarkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16438372346424006691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-51706483449773117262008-11-15T13:34:00.000-05:002008-11-15T13:34:00.000-05:00Hi Advo:I too can appreciate how difficult this si...Hi Advo:<BR/><BR/>I too can appreciate how difficult this situation is for you. If my wife and I had not been able to resolve our differences we might not still be together today.<BR/><BR/>I can only say that, while we must do our very best to resolve problems between us and the ones we love, ultimately it makes no sense to stay in a situation that makes both parties desperately unhappy.<BR/><BR/>I loved Aarkey's post too. <BR/><BR/>Best of luck my friend!<BR/><BR/>hmpHer Majesty's Playthinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07185896552621339359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-91477011723649317762008-11-15T12:11:00.000-05:002008-11-15T12:11:00.000-05:00Thank you so ...I just read Aarkey's blog with his...Thank you so ...<BR/><BR/>I just read Aarkey's blog with his "The Honeymoon Is Over Downs" horse race clip and laughed 'til I cried. I so appreciate your kind words.advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-51028979618438378752008-11-15T11:37:00.000-05:002008-11-15T11:37:00.000-05:00Oh advo...I so know what you are facing currently....Oh advo...I so know what you are facing currently. It is the predicament I myself had to face two years ago. Stay in an unfulfilling vanilla marriage (unfulfilling in a variety of ways)or the excitement/fear of change and what that brings.<BR/><BR/>I wish you the best and should you need support, know you have a friend in me. We are here to support you!MShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02590784687795466320noreply@blogger.com