tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post8978659052558562533..comments2023-10-08T11:38:43.498-04:00Comments on Client Nine and a Half: Dance With Me Through This Rainadvochastyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-47611409299044194982011-01-15T09:00:05.862-05:002011-01-15T09:00:05.862-05:00Aarkey -
The whole thing has really made me think...Aarkey -<br /><br />The whole thing has really made me think about who I've told who is not kink and about how many people they must have told already.<br /><br />Like you say it's juicy gossip to some and an evil, unforgivable, horror to others. It's sad not to be able to trust friends.advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-72127770032724214672011-01-13T23:30:01.851-05:002011-01-13T23:30:01.851-05:00Sorry to read that happened.
As to the why... som...Sorry to read that happened.<br /><br />As to the why... some people just like to gossip. It could be about a million other things, but anything that's interesting - well they just have to tell someone.<br /><br />It's one of the reasons I'm so private about myself with anyone who's not kink. Although I'm very out in the scene, it's just not worth the hassle.<br /><br />Because even if it's just gossip to some, to others it's a horrible, sinful, even evil perversion.<br /><br />And I don't mean that in a hot way ;)<br /><br />Be well brother, and know in your heart that "former employee" is heading down a sad and lonely karmic path.Aarkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08835944871054417961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-91817430205604922412011-01-12T21:28:06.295-05:002011-01-12T21:28:06.295-05:00HMP -
I probably should have waited and let the s...HMP -<br /><br />I probably should have waited and let the situation just sink in and then see how I felt. Being calmer, the "outing" was probably drunken girl chat.<br /><br />And the more I think about it, College Senior really did not need to go to my wife's friend and talk about this. She emailed me about lunch and career advice long before she even returned to NYC. I think College Senior, either intentionally or subliminally, wanted to get at Asshole Former Employee.<br /><br />Or she just reverted to being a kid instead of a bright young woman. Both, I suppose, are understandable and forgivable. <br /><br />But Asshole Former Employee can have a good life without me in it.<br /><br />Kinksters outing other kinksters for petty spite is horrible.advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-51960021580562198982011-01-12T20:51:42.084-05:002011-01-12T20:51:42.084-05:00Advo:
That is really terrible! I am really sorry ...Advo:<br /><br />That is really terrible! I am really sorry that happened to you. Outing someone is a truly disgusting thing to do. I have recently stopped posting on a certain BDSM board of long acquaintance partly because one of the posters there has taken revenge on someone in a similar manner. I shudder to think I almost had lunch with that asshole. Hideous enough when vanilla folk we trust do it. But when kinksters out each other out of petty spite it truly is the ultimate in slimy behavior.<br /><br />Be proud bro. You have nothing to worry about. Hold your head high. Fuck em if they can't take a joke.Her Majesty's Playthinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07185896552621339359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-84063236167291941902011-01-12T07:23:48.525-05:002011-01-12T07:23:48.525-05:00Hey Jeffery -
I'm actually not sure it was so...Hey Jeffery -<br /><br />I'm actually not sure it was so traumatic for College Senior. Asshole Former Employee is a unique charmer who everyone believes is their bestie until she leaves and moves on to the next. <br /><br />I think College Senior was really hurt AFE was completely out of touch. Given who College Senior chose to reveal the "dirty little secret" to she must have known there was a decent chance it would get back to me and I'd go off on AFE? Or am I being way too cynical??<br /><br />At any rate, AFE owes me a big time apology and an explanation as to why she'd totally deny a significant breach of trust.<br /><br />Or maybe she should just have a good life...advochastyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10602192383025913039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1458862844610146892.post-25622627457303736192011-01-11T21:42:50.440-05:002011-01-11T21:42:50.440-05:00Advo,
Wow. That really sucks. I'm just sorry ...Advo,<br /><br />Wow. That really sucks. I'm just sorry for everyone involved in that story.<br /><br />I'm always surprised at just how inconsiderate of others people can be, and in this case to what end? To share a bit of juicy gossip, some dirty little secret?<br /><br />Carry on, my friend. It's just one less person in your life to lie to you. And your young friend? Well, if this was really that traumatic, hopefully she'll grow, learn, and start thinking for herself when she hears such talk in the future.<br /><br />JeffreySublivion2khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10901753412731585400noreply@blogger.com