Sunday, June 13, 2010

Sweet Dreams

As I once again submerge into constant study during most all available free time (whatever that is...) I also do little things to keep my eye on the prize. I take the little man down from the zoomer thingy in Google Maps and wander downtown Miami. I scan Craigslist ads to scope out the residential and commercial rental markets. I compare virtual office packages. Somebody said it was the modern day equivalent of a med student studying for the boards. A hundred times he writes; Dr. Advo, Dr. Advo, Dr. Advo. Wait a sec, that has a kind of catchy ring to it. Maybe more like a Spiderman villan though.

As for my kink dreams I'm thinking classes, munches, more active involvement in FetLife, and perhaps working on my creative writing some more. When I take my virtual Googlemap Man down from married life and drop him single and sort of available in a public play fetish party he feels very out of place. I suppose I still really want to go to a fetish party but can't imagine playing publicly. Someone once said to me that I wanted to go to a fetish party so badly because I'd never been to one. Dreams and reality diverge, she cautioned. But then she added she enjoyed them if she went with friends.

My kinky little GoogleMaps Man has some good friends now and wants to make some more. All in good time. Hey, everybody is looking for something.


Her Majesty's Plaything said...

You're right. Dr. Advo does sound like a bit like a Spidey villain! ;-)

It's good to dream. It's good to keep your eyes on the prize. Classes, munches, workshops, fetish parties are all great ideas. If I were in your shoes I would do my best to get out and circulate in the fetish scene as much as possible. It will be an adventure that your friends and blog fans will very much enjoy hearing and reading about! ;-)

advochasty said...

Ah yes, the Advo Chronicles! Fun for all. Thrills, chills, the faint hint of lurking danger. Rubber, leather, black retro lingerie. The smell of her perfume. The glint of hunger in her eye as she wields the cane!

As long as I don't end up eating warmed over Chef Boy-ar-dee in front of "Seinfeld" re-runs it's all good!

Her Majesty's Plaything said...
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Her Majesty's Plaything said...

"Thrills, chills, the faint hint of lurking danger. Rubber, leather, black retro lingerie. The smell of her perfume. The glint of hunger in her eye as she wields the cane!"

Jeez! I'm hot already! Dude you write so well even Chef Boy-ar-dee sounds good! I await the next installment with baited breath and one hand on my keyboard! ;-)

Aarkey said...

Fetish parties are definitely more fun when you can go with friends. No bout a doubt it.

And most public parties are much less about play than just socializing in fetish clothes. Real play, BDSM play... that's something that seems to happen for most folks only at smaller private parties.

But the easier stuff - foot massages, trampling, a swift slap to the face, a human ashtray... that kind of stuff goes on a bunch. Just don't go expecting to have a group of beautiful dommes tying you to a cross and savaging you with strapons... because you have to get WAY back in the line for that! :P

advochasty said...

LOL! I probably would be on that line, however long it might be.

The social aspect is what I look forward to most, I think. Just meeting and talking to other kinksters has been fun. I've done it a little and am looking forward to a future with more.

I've always had a bit of itchy party-itis so I've sort of fixated on the unknown of the "fetish party" to occasionally obsess over. What will I wear, what will I say, nobody will like me ... Blah, blah, blah

Ten minutes into the first one and I'm sure I'll be fine!