Sunday, October 31, 2010


Me...I'm learning how to lead on the dance floor and she's trying to learn to follow. It would be hilarious if she'd relax and admit she's a domme. We're actually getting quite good together, though I've given up thinking there's any chance of sexual combustibility.

But on Wednesday night when I got up to offer the other one, the new blind date, the wall seat at the little local neighborhood restaurant where everyone seems to already know my name she said, "Of course I'd like that spot, and you should immediately sit here", she smiled and pointed to the outside chair. Be still my heart! Senorita Kinky did pre-screen!

Our conversation just flitted and flowed from this subject to that one. She asked if our mutual friend had told me anything about her and I said only that she was beautiful. It made her eyes sparkle and her glossed lips curve into an appreciative smile.

"So do you do both roles", she asked.

"You mean am I a switch?" I asked. "Well let's put it this way, I'm actually learning to lead on the dance floor. Does that count?"

She laughed.

I yattered on.

"Well, I have this dear friend who thinks it's a team sport and you should choose a side," I smirked a bit. "But life is change, who knows. Stranger things could happen."

She held my hand as we waited on Hudson for a cab to take her home. I put my other hand over hers and softly ran my fingers around her fingers. I lingered a bit. As the cab pulled up she took my face in both hands and kissed me, just left of my mouth, long and slow. I helped her in, shut the door and began the two block walk home.

I reached for my phone as I passed by the Louboutin boutique and to my surprise there was a message.

"You're supposed to wait and watch as the cab pulls away. You are out of practice. Naughty, naughty."

Somos novios? Hmmm...maybe I'm jumping the gun just a bit. But maybe, just maybe, I'll get some practice one of these fine evenings after all.


Sublivion2k said...


This post made me smile. I'm glad you are out there and having these types of nights.

Something tells me you'll be getting lots of practice at learning "the moves."

Here's to many more!


Aarkey said...

Awww. Happy for ya.

Now have fun and stop thinkin so much!

advochasty said...

Jeffery -

I have no moves. That's why it's necessary she be dommy, otherwise nothing would ever happen...

Aarkey -

What? Me think too much?? You must be thinking of someone else!!


Mistress Crimson said...

My eyes watered when I was reading this. I suppose you never know when good things will happen, eh?
She sounds lovely. Hope things work out!

advochasty said...

C -

So your eyes watered, eh? Laughing at my lack of moves I assume? ;-)

You are too sweet being touched by my unexpected touching moments. I crushed big time on Senorita Kinky for years. She knows me pretty well, so she made what was a wonderful match, at least on the first date.

Second date tomorrow night. Double date with La Senorita, her hubby and "mi nuevo amor". We shall see.

Thanks for dropping by...don't be such a stranger. I was singing your praises to a mutual friend just hours ago.

Sublivion2k said...


No moves? Bah! Stop being modest. I read your Crustacean Quester entry. Those, my friend, are some serious moves.

Enjoy the ride.


Her Majesty's Plaything said...

Hi Advo:

Wow. She sounds intriguing! Sounds like your life is heating up just in time for the cold winter months! Kudos! ;-)

advochasty said...


I try the occassional creative two-step!!


Heating up also in time to try and entice the hard to get to Miami for some fun in the sun!!

Ms. Tara Sterling said...

Sounds like you need a lesson in "service topping." I bet you could figure out a few ways to have fun with a switch considering your natural pull to serve.


advochasty said...


"Service topping lessons"? Is there a sign-up sheet floating around somewhere??