Thursday, June 4, 2009


No pop pretty boy, Nutini has shared stages
with the likes of Solomon Burke and the Rolling Stones.

4 comments:

slave2Catwoman said...

You are a more patient man than I. I could not take living in a minefield. Each step you take is a potential explosion. Screw all that psycho babble and trying to make you feel guilty. You have nothing to be ashamed of.

advochasty said...

I really feel no shame. A sea change for me.

She's the one that feels rejected. In her eyes, someone has to be wrong. It's either her or me.

I'm it! Thanks though man. I appreciate it!

mssaskia said...

A fetish is only a pathology if it genuinely prevents you from other kinds of intimacy.

Finding mental health professionals who are educated on paraphilias, let alone tolerant or supportive, is just about impossible.

You write very well and I'm enjoying what you have to say.

advochasty said...

Oooo. Just saw your comment this morning! I love when they are tucked into the music. Like a kinky Easter egg hunt.

I feel lucky that my own shrink is very kink aware and fetish friendly. I've known her for almost 30 years. Maybe it's because she's gay and out and active. Maybe she's just sensitive to difference.

Thanks for your kind words about my writing. I'm totally agonizing over how to turn my longing for She-ness into an extended work.

I really like your journal. Very straight up and real.